written by Karen, co-webmaster of My Plus Size Bra
Hello everyone, my name is PlusE and Im your plus size bra. I just wanted to have a little chat because you probably dont realize that I have wants and needs just like you do. I do want to be a good little bra (or should I rephrase that to say a good big bra) but a little communication between two beings never hurt anyone and actually might even make our relationship stronger.
With all due respect, I want to be an important part of your life. I will go with you throughout the day making sure you look fantastic, feel comfortable and even sexy. I stand up for you even when you are feeling down. I support you even when the world seems to be against you. I comfort you when you have had a long, tiring day. Without my friendship you would not be in the shape you are today. Please take this time to hear me, friend to friend.
Please choose me carefully. I come in many shapes and forms and want to help out in as many ways as I can but it saddens me to be thrown in the back of a drawer and rarely taken out and worn proudly. Its awfully dark and depressing to be among all those old worn out socks with holes in the toes that you never get around to sewing up. Think carefully about what kinds of clothes that I am needed for because my plus size bra buddies and I want to be on display making you look your best. Remember, its a long term relationship thats forming so we must be compatible.
Im begging you to make sure I am the right size. If Im too little, youll be all crumbled up inside and your Girls cant breathe. Besides that theyll be bulging over the sides trying to get out. I will at that time be in danger of suffocating. Some would argue that it wouldnt be a bad way to go but Im not ready to venture into plus size bra heaven just yet. Now everyone knows that if the Girls arent happy, then nobody is happy. PlusE is my name but please dont buy me too big either. Girls need to be hugged up close so I can support you and make you look great. Im a big bra, I have a big need and I just want to help, thats all.
Take care of me. I may have seams and straps and hooks but I still have delicate feelings. Gentleness will go a long way in our relationship. Im a pretty strong character but if you want those extended years with me then youll need to take time out of your day to love me and care for me. I long to stay clean and fresh feeling. Oh but not in one of those washing machines that swish around and spin around and stretch every which way, theyre scary! A gentle bubble bath keeps me happy and relaxed, now thats the kind of plus size bra heaven that I want to be in. The dryer is not a friend. Its well known that I am not very pleasant to be around when I get hot flashes and sweat. Hang me ever so gently to dry in the fresh air. All your lingerie will be jealous.
Ive discussed this matter with those plus size bra buddies I told you about, they all agree. A plus size bra can be your best friend, a friend that will support you where and when you most need it. We just have needs that have to be voiced, I thank you for listening.
